Your Child, Your Mirror

In the relationship between parents and children there is a "hidden hand " consisting of a variety of facets of the life of the parents, projected unconsciously in the lives of children of all ages manner; projections that are unknown and refuse. Parents project onto our children our own expectations of life, our frustrations , our stages of childhood or adolescence where we left unresolved conflicts, our " would " and our own unmet needs , unconsciously hoping that they become an extension of us same and close our unfinished business .